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Hello Josh and Archie – We Miss You So Much

hearts-2Dear #JoshandArchieMcKay,

It has been a while since I last wrote to you both and I am sorry about that. I find it hard to sit down at my laptop and tell you both how much you are missed in our everyday lives, it’s hard listening to other grandparents talking proudly about their grandchildren, telling funny stories about them and hearing about how they have spent a day, night, weekend or holiday abroad with them.

Continue reading Hello Josh and Archie – We Miss You So Much

When Your Best is Not Enough

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There are times, sadly, when your very best just never seems to be good enough. It’s not because you lack the ability to do your best, but because the system does not want you to succeed at doing your best.

For those of you who follow and like this page I want to update you all on what has been going on, or not, and how this has affected my daughter, her daughters and our family in general. Continue reading When Your Best is Not Enough

When do I let go?

186I’ve been awake since  two thirty am thinking about my grandson’s #JoshandArchieMcKay after having a long conversation with my daughter about them earlier in the day. Sleep is always hard to find for me when my daughter is so distressed by how much she misses her two boys.

My oldest grandson Josh will be 11 years old tomorrow, it is another year where we will not help him celebrate this birthday because we have been denied access to him for so long now that he has been so brainwashed into thinking his mum and the rest of us are such bad people.
Continue reading When do I let go?

You May See Me Struggle……..

I have known a few people in my lifetime who were then or are now extremely frustrating to deal with, but none such as our own personal parental alienators.

Not only are they frustrating in each and every way, they are also very, very toxic, to the point that a skull and crossbones should be assigned to their every well thought out, planned and devious move. A few of these people absolutely show signs of having some sort of personality disorder, as in they don’t actually have any personality worth knowing. Continue reading You May See Me Struggle……..

Is Your Child Being Alienated a Checklist for Alienated Parents

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Gardner’s 8 symptoms of Parental Alienation

Richard A. Gardner M.D. Clinical Professor of Child Psychiatry at Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeon says that these are the 8 symptoms of Parental Alienation Continue reading Is Your Child Being Alienated a Checklist for Alienated Parents

The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

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So here we are again…..

It’s now August 2015 and we are about to enter year 4 of our personal hell that is Parental Alienation of our grandchildren #JoshandArchieMcKay.

We have had absolutely no contact with these two boys for what seems to be an eternity of pain and misery, and whilst we can deal with it on a daily basis their mother and their three sisters find it very hard and miss #JoshandArchieMcKay more than the words I write can convey.

We all know now that Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse in which a normal positive parent/child relationship is damaged or destroyed by another party using emotional manipulation, threats, false accusations, and any other means possible.

Continue reading The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

For Josh and Archie McKay Part 2

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Below you will find the comments left on this page by Mairi Scally which I have now made public for all to see.

Mairi
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mairiscally@googlemail.com

as myself and my family have been blocked from every website this woman has made means we can’t defend ourselves.
My daughter started going out with this woman’s ex son in law 3 yrs ago, he had 4 kids living with him at the time 2 of which have been proved through DNA not to be his. They had nothing but rags to wear and bits and pieces of broken toys to play with, the turn around since then is huge. 2 well kitted out and decorated bedrooms and 100% attendance at school and nursery oh yes and manners. She merly picked up the pieces of a very broken home. Their “mother” did not turn up to any contact set up for her letting them down again and again apart from once when she posted photos of the youngest all over the Internet from the contact centre(her eldest boy refused point blank not to go) his own choice! Now her mother continues to slander my daughter all over the Internet to people that are only getting half a story. Setting up a fund for court when she can afford to go abroad twice a year I find disgraceful. Every mother should have the right to see their children but there are totally different ways to go about getting that result instead of slandering a 24 year old girl that has only improved things for 2 little boys whom were abandoned with nothing just so their mother could swan off for 4/5 days at a time and has to be tracked down and found covered in love bites (her own mother tried to have her sectioned) also if she had turned up to the contact visits, all this would be water under a very rusty rickety bridge. Please, unless you have the other side of a story especially this one. DO NOT TRUST OR BELIEVE THIS VILE WOMAN.

Mairi
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mairiscally@goiglemail.com

As my last comment was conveniently deleted here is another.
My family and I do not get a chance to defend ourselves against the lies and slander linda Miller puts all over the Internet about us. Her daughter abandoned her poor children and left them with nothing. She was more than happy to leave them in that position until her ex started going with someone else. That’s when the following and slander started. This women could not handle the fact that my daughter picked up the pieces of her very broken home. 4 kids abandoned with her ex 2 of which are not his biologically proven through DNA. These 2 little boys were left very confused. The turn around since then is massive, 2 beautifully kitted out bedrooms with everything little boys should have brilliant manners 100% attendance in school and nursery not to mention they are loved again. She will have you believe all sorts of lies about abuse etc, anything to cover up the shame of what she “dragged” up, a women who has 5 kids and only has 2 as her eldest daughter lives with her granny, the liar I am talking about. She did not turn up at the visits at the contact centre set up for her, apart from one, were she took photos of her 3 year old and posted them online, dangerous! Her eldest boy refused point blank to go to this contact visit, a decision he made himself. She has set up a website for people to “donate” money, but can go on holiday abroad twice a year, shameful. Please, think about what this vile excuse for a granny writes and ponder the fact she has blocked all of us so you won’t read the TRUTH. No one is hiding these 2 little boys, they most certainly are not missing. They are at home very much settled at the fact their “step mum” will be there when they get up and come home from school. No more confusion for these 2 innocents thanks to Allana Bruce and their daddy JayMcKay.

 

Especially for Josh and Archie McKay

josh n mummyDear Josh and Archie,

I realise that what you are both about to learn and see in these posts is not something that is very pleasant, but, it is something that you both need to know about.

You’re mummy never gave up looking for you, she was always denied your address, when you were registered at your new school, your mummy was not even listed as being your next of kin, she was just ‘left off’ by your dad and allana.

She and your sisters and us, have missed Christmases, birthdays and all sorts of other things like holidays abroad, and just seeing you for even a little while, but that’s not because we haven’t tried, it’s because we were told we were never being allowed to see you both again, even Caitlin has a solicitor who is getting the runaround.

I am going to try to keep this nice and simple for you to understand and I shall be posting pictures of things that have been written about your mummy and me too which are not very nice to read, they have been written by your dad, your granny Liz, Allana, Allana’s mum Mairi Scally and Allana’s aunty Caroline Colville, and a few of their friends.

If you click on each picture it will show you exactly what is being said about your mum.

All we want you to know is that YOU WERE NEVER ABANDONED, YOU WERE NEVER FORGOTTEN, WE and especially your mummy NEVER STOPPED TRYING TO SEE YOU BOTH and you are BOTH STILL VERY MUCH LOVED AND MISSED.

Continue reading Especially for Josh and Archie McKay

A Lay Persons Guide to Parental Alienation

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I have now written a fair amount on parental alienation and parental alienation syndrome (PAS) or parental alienation disorder (PAD) from my perspective as a n alienated grandparent and from the perspective of my daughter who is an alienated parent.

 

I’ve also said to you all before that I am in no way qualified educationally to give an opinion about whether the behavioural changes displayed by an alienated child fit any sort of psychiatric definition. Continue reading A Lay Persons Guide to Parental Alienation

June 2015 and The Alienators Just Can’t Leave it Alone

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So our particular ‪#‎PASischildabuse‬ alienators are at it again on their Facebook accounts. They seem to think it’s incredibly funny to actually denigrate the mother of the children they are looking after, so here are the pictures for future reference of the Family Court where Residency and Access hearings will be heard and of course for ‪#‎JoshandArchieMcKay‬who will get to know the truth when they are older about what exactly went on.

So these are the two females who not only follow on www.gnat.wtf  but also on Twitter under various names and guises, and who also attempt to intimidate followers on twitter and also follow our GNAT Facebook and Google pages. It is interesting that they think it is all about them, when in actual fact when a narcissist reveals themselves in this way it really become obvious that it is all about THEM.

It is hard to believe that these people are actually in day to day contact with my grandsons while their mum sits and waits for news on access and residency of them.

I would like to point out that there are many people on the GNAT Facebook account who live near these people, although I have asked them NOT TO TELL ME where they live. I have asked them to pass on any pertinent information to their local Police Station and or Social Work Department.

And while we are on the subject of ‪#‎allanabruce‬ perhaps Perth and Kinross Council could explain which school it was that ‘raised concerns about Allana Bruce’, not hearsay either came from an extremely reputable and impeccable source, so somewhere in your files at PKC SW and Educ Dept there is a record of this.