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When Your Best is Not Enough

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There are times, sadly, when your very best just never seems to be good enough. It’s not because you lack the ability to do your best, but because the system does not want you to succeed at doing your best.

For those of you who follow and like this page I want to update you all on what has been going on, or not, and how this has affected my daughter, her daughters and our family in general. Continue reading When Your Best is Not Enough

2016 A New Year

FB_IMG_1442424002524For the past four years now my daughter has thought that not seeing her two sons has been her fault, she now finally understands that it was not her fault, and with all that we have learned together as a family who have been totally cut off and denied any access with or to #JoshandArchieMcKay it is hardly surprising that it has taken her this long to finally understand the horrors that Parental Alienators commit, having to learn what Parental Alienators do is no mean feat. Continue reading 2016 A New Year

Sisters and their Brothers

My beautiful grandchildrenDear #JoshandArchieMcKay

Well it was Caitlin’s birthday today and as much as she enjoyed it all she said quite a few times how much she missed you both, it made it all very sad, no 14 year old girl should be saying things like that about missing her brothers. Continue reading Sisters and their Brothers

Missing Children

Josn and mummyDear ‪#‎JoshandArchieMcKay

Well its back to Inchview Primary school for you both tomorrow which means it will almost be time again for parent’s night.

It is also your sisters birthday on Tuesday and she says the best gift she could get would be to see you both without all the hassle of trying to do it through her solicitors at Thornton’s in Perth, but she’s resigned herself to once again being disappointed because she knows it’s 99.99% most likely not to happen. Continue reading Missing Children

You May See Me Struggle……..

I have known a few people in my lifetime who were then or are now extremely frustrating to deal with, but none such as our own personal parental alienators.

Not only are they frustrating in each and every way, they are also very, very toxic, to the point that a skull and crossbones should be assigned to their every well thought out, planned and devious move. A few of these people absolutely show signs of having some sort of personality disorder, as in they don’t actually have any personality worth knowing. Continue reading You May See Me Struggle……..

Updates on Social Media Abuse

FB_IMG_1442527212379I have now had three separate solicitors letters (all from different solicitors firms) telling me that they would like me to remove the webpages, certain posts and some of my tweets, which they claim are offensive and embarrassing for my grandsons #JoshandArchieMcKay

My response to those letters are NO simple as that. The posts are my right to Freedom of Expression and Speech. These posts are also the only way we can evidence our hellish journey to fight to see them both, they also document the abuse we have had to take and the absolute mess the local authority have made of protecting ALL of my grandchildren.

The posts will not be removed and will be there for as long as my daughters and her children remain apart.

I suggest to all three solicitors firms that instead of them being embarrassing to my grandsons they are in actual fact embarrassing for your clients, not all solicitors require them to be removed, in as much as you want them removed others wish them to remain.

This is MY website, bought, paid for and updated by me, the associated Community Facebook page and Twitter account are also public pages and will remain.

Here is an update to these social media posts.

And YES I was given permission to post the ‘divorce papers’ since the address isn’t valid it isn’t an issue! Continue reading Updates on Social Media Abuse

The Pro’s and Con’s of Shared Parenting

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As an alienated grandmother whose daughter is being actively alienated from her two sons #JoshandArchieMcKay by her ex-husband and his new partner, and her family too (let’s all get in on the act here) I decided to take a look at the bigger picture and try to find a way forward as a means to attempting a more positive compromise, and in the hope that my daughters ex-husband may actually read this and consider the options, although I am doubtful, and if anything its more likely it’ll be his lawyer reading this and then writing to me again!

I have tried to sit down and work out the pros and cons of ‘Shared Parenting’ and exactly what this means not only for the children but also for the parents and other extended family members.

So as a ‘lay person’ with no other formal qualifications on this matter other than my experience of being in the position of seeing actual Parental Alienation at work, how it affects not only the absent parent, but also siblings and extended family here are my own personal thoughts on the matter. Continue reading The Pro’s and Con’s of Shared Parenting

The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

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So here we are again…..

It’s now August 2015 and we are about to enter year 4 of our personal hell that is Parental Alienation of our grandchildren #JoshandArchieMcKay.

We have had absolutely no contact with these two boys for what seems to be an eternity of pain and misery, and whilst we can deal with it on a daily basis their mother and their three sisters find it very hard and miss #JoshandArchieMcKay more than the words I write can convey.

We all know now that Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse in which a normal positive parent/child relationship is damaged or destroyed by another party using emotional manipulation, threats, false accusations, and any other means possible.

Continue reading The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

For Josh and Archie McKay Part 2

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Below you will find the comments left on this page by Mairi Scally which I have now made public for all to see.

Mairi
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mairiscally@googlemail.com

as myself and my family have been blocked from every website this woman has made means we can’t defend ourselves.
My daughter started going out with this woman’s ex son in law 3 yrs ago, he had 4 kids living with him at the time 2 of which have been proved through DNA not to be his. They had nothing but rags to wear and bits and pieces of broken toys to play with, the turn around since then is huge. 2 well kitted out and decorated bedrooms and 100% attendance at school and nursery oh yes and manners. She merly picked up the pieces of a very broken home. Their “mother” did not turn up to any contact set up for her letting them down again and again apart from once when she posted photos of the youngest all over the Internet from the contact centre(her eldest boy refused point blank not to go) his own choice! Now her mother continues to slander my daughter all over the Internet to people that are only getting half a story. Setting up a fund for court when she can afford to go abroad twice a year I find disgraceful. Every mother should have the right to see their children but there are totally different ways to go about getting that result instead of slandering a 24 year old girl that has only improved things for 2 little boys whom were abandoned with nothing just so their mother could swan off for 4/5 days at a time and has to be tracked down and found covered in love bites (her own mother tried to have her sectioned) also if she had turned up to the contact visits, all this would be water under a very rusty rickety bridge. Please, unless you have the other side of a story especially this one. DO NOT TRUST OR BELIEVE THIS VILE WOMAN.

Mairi
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mairiscally@goiglemail.com

As my last comment was conveniently deleted here is another.
My family and I do not get a chance to defend ourselves against the lies and slander linda Miller puts all over the Internet about us. Her daughter abandoned her poor children and left them with nothing. She was more than happy to leave them in that position until her ex started going with someone else. That’s when the following and slander started. This women could not handle the fact that my daughter picked up the pieces of her very broken home. 4 kids abandoned with her ex 2 of which are not his biologically proven through DNA. These 2 little boys were left very confused. The turn around since then is massive, 2 beautifully kitted out bedrooms with everything little boys should have brilliant manners 100% attendance in school and nursery not to mention they are loved again. She will have you believe all sorts of lies about abuse etc, anything to cover up the shame of what she “dragged” up, a women who has 5 kids and only has 2 as her eldest daughter lives with her granny, the liar I am talking about. She did not turn up at the visits at the contact centre set up for her, apart from one, were she took photos of her 3 year old and posted them online, dangerous! Her eldest boy refused point blank to go to this contact visit, a decision he made himself. She has set up a website for people to “donate” money, but can go on holiday abroad twice a year, shameful. Please, think about what this vile excuse for a granny writes and ponder the fact she has blocked all of us so you won’t read the TRUTH. No one is hiding these 2 little boys, they most certainly are not missing. They are at home very much settled at the fact their “step mum” will be there when they get up and come home from school. No more confusion for these 2 innocents thanks to Allana Bruce and their daddy JayMcKay.