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Hello Josh and Archie – We Miss You So Much

hearts-2Dear #JoshandArchieMcKay,

It has been a while since I last wrote to you both and I am sorry about that. I find it hard to sit down at my laptop and tell you both how much you are missed in our everyday lives, it’s hard listening to other grandparents talking proudly about their grandchildren, telling funny stories about them and hearing about how they have spent a day, night, weekend or holiday abroad with them.

Continue reading Hello Josh and Archie – We Miss You So Much

The Serious Crime Act 2015

The Serious Crime Act (2015)

So I thought it was time to write another little piece about Parental Alienation and how the Police do not see it as an issue.

My daughter has now reported this issue on several occasions and has never had any sort of update that has been worth having. Continue reading The Serious Crime Act 2015

Bullies and Domestic Violence

 

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So it was a beautiful sunny day and there I was in Perth’s city centre High street, minding my own business, sitting waiting…. just waiting….and along the side of my car comes this person, who then proceeds to call me a ‘skanky shite’, (well coming from this one it is all a bit rich really) but before she can say anything else a police car pulls up just at the lights on the High street, not far from where I am legitimately parked, and, well, just waiting…. but before I can respond to her she literally scuttles, and I do mean scuttles off, further up the High street. Continue reading Bullies and Domestic Violence

When Your Best is Not Enough

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There are times, sadly, when your very best just never seems to be good enough. It’s not because you lack the ability to do your best, but because the system does not want you to succeed at doing your best.

For those of you who follow and like this page I want to update you all on what has been going on, or not, and how this has affected my daughter, her daughters and our family in general. Continue reading When Your Best is Not Enough

Change….or Not……

 

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Change…..or Not…..

It is always heartbreaking for me to read private messages from parents who have been put through an absolute nightmare by their exes, their exes families and friends, and in particular those in local authority and in Police forces who could have done so much more to help alleviate their issues. Continue reading Change….or Not……

I Tried My Best…….

FB_IMG_1442418272736I never really thought much about Parental Alienation until it happened to my family, it isn’t one of ‘those things’ that you hear much about on the news or in the main stream media, but in the UK it does happen and it is happening more than people know.

But what is Parental Alienation? Well in short it is a term which is used to describe the behaviours used by a parent which is often mirrored by other family members, it is used to manipulate children’s minds with the end motive being to sever all ties and links with the child’s other parent and their extended family. Continue reading I Tried My Best…….

The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

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So here we are again…..

It’s now August 2015 and we are about to enter year 4 of our personal hell that is Parental Alienation of our grandchildren #JoshandArchieMcKay.

We have had absolutely no contact with these two boys for what seems to be an eternity of pain and misery, and whilst we can deal with it on a daily basis their mother and their three sisters find it very hard and miss #JoshandArchieMcKay more than the words I write can convey.

We all know now that Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse in which a normal positive parent/child relationship is damaged or destroyed by another party using emotional manipulation, threats, false accusations, and any other means possible.

Continue reading The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

Especially for Josh and Archie McKay

josh n mummyDear Josh and Archie,

I realise that what you are both about to learn and see in these posts is not something that is very pleasant, but, it is something that you both need to know about.

You’re mummy never gave up looking for you, she was always denied your address, when you were registered at your new school, your mummy was not even listed as being your next of kin, she was just ‘left off’ by your dad and allana.

She and your sisters and us, have missed Christmases, birthdays and all sorts of other things like holidays abroad, and just seeing you for even a little while, but that’s not because we haven’t tried, it’s because we were told we were never being allowed to see you both again, even Caitlin has a solicitor who is getting the runaround.

I am going to try to keep this nice and simple for you to understand and I shall be posting pictures of things that have been written about your mummy and me too which are not very nice to read, they have been written by your dad, your granny Liz, Allana, Allana’s mum Mairi Scally and Allana’s aunty Caroline Colville, and a few of their friends.

If you click on each picture it will show you exactly what is being said about your mum.

All we want you to know is that YOU WERE NEVER ABANDONED, YOU WERE NEVER FORGOTTEN, WE and especially your mummy NEVER STOPPED TRYING TO SEE YOU BOTH and you are BOTH STILL VERY MUCH LOVED AND MISSED.

Continue reading Especially for Josh and Archie McKay

Active Parental Alienation

So I thought I’d written enough about #pasabusers and how they operate, but it seems that some members of this particular family just cannot help themselves and have to post their vitriolic hate filled abuse online, then when it get’s a little bit hot they try to remove the post. Continue reading Active Parental Alienation

A Lay Persons Guide to Parental Alienation

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I have now written a fair amount on parental alienation and parental alienation syndrome (PAS) or parental alienation disorder (PAD) from my perspective as a n alienated grandparent and from the perspective of my daughter who is an alienated parent.

 

I’ve also said to you all before that I am in no way qualified educationally to give an opinion about whether the behavioural changes displayed by an alienated child fit any sort of psychiatric definition. Continue reading A Lay Persons Guide to Parental Alienation