It has been a while since I last wrote to you both and I am sorry about that. I find it hard to sit down at my laptop and tell you both how much you are missed in our everyday lives, it’s hard listening to other grandparents talking proudly about their grandchildren, telling funny stories about them and hearing about how they have spent a day, night, weekend or holiday abroad with them.
Continue reading Hello Josh and Archie – We Miss You So Much
I was recently invited to ‘like’ another Facebook Community page dealing with Parental Alienation, but before I could hit that little ‘like’ radio button I had to give the whole why thing some thought, and these were the conclusions that I came to and wrote to the page owner on.
I find it quite horrifying, yet at the same time inspiring, that the number of community pages and groups, private or public, dealing with the insidious evil that is Parental Alienation seems to be exploding on the great big wide world of the Internet and social media. Continue reading What’s Love Got to Do with It…..
It is always heartbreaking for me to read private messages from parents who have been put through an absolute nightmare by their exes, their exes families and friends, and in particular those in local authority and in Police forces who could have done so much more to help alleviate their issues. Continue reading Change….or Not……
For the past four years now my daughter has thought that not seeing her two sons has been her fault, she now finally understands that it was not her fault, and with all that we have learned together as a family who have been totally cut off and denied any access with or to #JoshandArchieMcKay it is hardly surprising that it has taken her this long to finally understand the horrors that Parental Alienators commit, having to learn what Parental Alienators do is no mean feat. Continue reading 2016 A New Year
I’ve been awake since two thirty am thinking about my grandson’s #JoshandArchieMcKay after having a long conversation with my daughter about them earlier in the day. Sleep is always hard to find for me when my daughter is so distressed by how much she misses her two boys.
My oldest grandson Josh will be 11 years old tomorrow, it is another year where we will not help him celebrate this birthday because we have been denied access to him for so long now that he has been so brainwashed into thinking his mum and the rest of us are such bad people.
Continue reading When do I let go?
Tomorrow will be your 11th birthday. I remember the day you were born, very clearly as if it were just yesterday, even although I was on holiday at the time in Canada at the time, I remember the joy in your mum and dad’s voices when we spoke to them, I remember thinking, wow I have a grandson now, how wonderful is that.
Continue reading Happy 11th Birthday Josh
Well its back to Inchview Primary school for you both tomorrow which means it will almost be time again for parent’s night.
It is also your sisters birthday on Tuesday and she says the best gift she could get would be to see you both without all the hassle of trying to do it through her solicitors at Thornton’s in Perth, but she’s resigned herself to once again being disappointed because she knows it’s 99.99% most likely not to happen. Continue reading Missing Children
I have known a few people in my lifetime who were then or are now extremely frustrating to deal with, but none such as our own personal parental alienators.
Not only are they frustrating in each and every way, they are also very, very toxic, to the point that a skull and crossbones should be assigned to their every well thought out, planned and devious move. A few of these people absolutely show signs of having some sort of personality disorder, as in they don’t actually have any personality worth knowing. Continue reading You May See Me Struggle……..
Gardner’s 8 symptoms of Parental Alienation
Richard A. Gardner M.D. Clinical Professor of Child Psychiatry at Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeon says that these are the 8 symptoms of Parental Alienation Continue reading Is Your Child Being Alienated a Checklist for Alienated Parents
Dear Josh and Archie,
Below you will find the comments left on this page by Mairi Scally which I have now made public for all to see.