Tag Archives: Grandchildren

What’s Love Got to Do with It…..

13177177_1576505552641932_2457046837278823513_nI was recently invited to ‘like’ another Facebook Community page dealing with Parental Alienation, but before I could hit that little ‘like’ radio button I had to give the whole why thing some thought, and these were the conclusions that I came to and wrote to the page owner on.

I find it quite horrifying, yet at the same time inspiring, that the number of community pages and groups, private or public, dealing with the insidious evil that is Parental Alienation seems to be exploding on the great big wide world of the Internet and social media. Continue reading What’s Love Got to Do with It…..

Change….or Not……

 

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Change…..or Not…..

It is always heartbreaking for me to read private messages from parents who have been put through an absolute nightmare by their exes, their exes families and friends, and in particular those in local authority and in Police forces who could have done so much more to help alleviate their issues. Continue reading Change….or Not……

2016 A New Year

FB_IMG_1442424002524For the past four years now my daughter has thought that not seeing her two sons has been her fault, she now finally understands that it was not her fault, and with all that we have learned together as a family who have been totally cut off and denied any access with or to #JoshandArchieMcKay it is hardly surprising that it has taken her this long to finally understand the horrors that Parental Alienators commit, having to learn what Parental Alienators do is no mean feat. Continue reading 2016 A New Year

When do I let go?

186I’ve been awake since  two thirty am thinking about my grandson’s #JoshandArchieMcKay after having a long conversation with my daughter about them earlier in the day. Sleep is always hard to find for me when my daughter is so distressed by how much she misses her two boys.

My oldest grandson Josh will be 11 years old tomorrow, it is another year where we will not help him celebrate this birthday because we have been denied access to him for so long now that he has been so brainwashed into thinking his mum and the rest of us are such bad people.
Continue reading When do I let go?

Happy 11th Birthday Josh

Dear #JoshMcKay,

Tomorrow will be your 11th birthday. I remember the day you were born, very clearly as if it were just yesterday, even although I was on holiday at the time in Canada at the time, I remember the joy in your mum and dad’s voices when we spoke to them, I remember thinking, wow I have a grandson now, how wonderful is that.

Continue reading Happy 11th Birthday Josh

Is Your Child Being Alienated a Checklist for Alienated Parents

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Gardner’s 8 symptoms of Parental Alienation

Richard A. Gardner M.D. Clinical Professor of Child Psychiatry at Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeon says that these are the 8 symptoms of Parental Alienation Continue reading Is Your Child Being Alienated a Checklist for Alienated Parents

The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

FB_IMG_1438041090334 - CopyDear #JoshandArchieMcKay

So here we are again…..

It’s now August 2015 and we are about to enter year 4 of our personal hell that is Parental Alienation of our grandchildren #JoshandArchieMcKay.

We have had absolutely no contact with these two boys for what seems to be an eternity of pain and misery, and whilst we can deal with it on a daily basis their mother and their three sisters find it very hard and miss #JoshandArchieMcKay more than the words I write can convey.

We all know now that Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse in which a normal positive parent/child relationship is damaged or destroyed by another party using emotional manipulation, threats, false accusations, and any other means possible.

Continue reading The Lengths Parental Alienators Will Go To…….

The Trouble with Local Authorities…

DC3My name is Linda E Silliman Millar, I suppose I am what some people would consider in polite terms to be an ‘activist’ of sorts and others such as active Parental Alienators, but mainly those in the establishment and within Local Authorities I am nothing but ‘a pain in the backside’, let’s not sugar coat it here!!

I am an alienated grandparent and I have been for the past 3, almost 4 years now. I advocate for my daughter who is also being actively alienated against by her husband, she has not seen her 2 sons Josh and Archie McKay, in as much as this is our story, it is also about my daughters fight against Parental Alienation.

 

Continue reading The Trouble with Local Authorities…

For Josh and Archie McKay Part 2

Screenshot_2015-07-07-14-21-55Dear Josh and Archie,

Below you will find the comments left on this page by Mairi Scally which I have now made public for all to see.

Mairi
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mairiscally@googlemail.com

as myself and my family have been blocked from every website this woman has made means we can’t defend ourselves.
My daughter started going out with this woman’s ex son in law 3 yrs ago, he had 4 kids living with him at the time 2 of which have been proved through DNA not to be his. They had nothing but rags to wear and bits and pieces of broken toys to play with, the turn around since then is huge. 2 well kitted out and decorated bedrooms and 100% attendance at school and nursery oh yes and manners. She merly picked up the pieces of a very broken home. Their “mother” did not turn up to any contact set up for her letting them down again and again apart from once when she posted photos of the youngest all over the Internet from the contact centre(her eldest boy refused point blank not to go) his own choice! Now her mother continues to slander my daughter all over the Internet to people that are only getting half a story. Setting up a fund for court when she can afford to go abroad twice a year I find disgraceful. Every mother should have the right to see their children but there are totally different ways to go about getting that result instead of slandering a 24 year old girl that has only improved things for 2 little boys whom were abandoned with nothing just so their mother could swan off for 4/5 days at a time and has to be tracked down and found covered in love bites (her own mother tried to have her sectioned) also if she had turned up to the contact visits, all this would be water under a very rusty rickety bridge. Please, unless you have the other side of a story especially this one. DO NOT TRUST OR BELIEVE THIS VILE WOMAN.

Mairi
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mairiscally@goiglemail.com

As my last comment was conveniently deleted here is another.
My family and I do not get a chance to defend ourselves against the lies and slander linda Miller puts all over the Internet about us. Her daughter abandoned her poor children and left them with nothing. She was more than happy to leave them in that position until her ex started going with someone else. That’s when the following and slander started. This women could not handle the fact that my daughter picked up the pieces of her very broken home. 4 kids abandoned with her ex 2 of which are not his biologically proven through DNA. These 2 little boys were left very confused. The turn around since then is massive, 2 beautifully kitted out bedrooms with everything little boys should have brilliant manners 100% attendance in school and nursery not to mention they are loved again. She will have you believe all sorts of lies about abuse etc, anything to cover up the shame of what she “dragged” up, a women who has 5 kids and only has 2 as her eldest daughter lives with her granny, the liar I am talking about. She did not turn up at the visits at the contact centre set up for her, apart from one, were she took photos of her 3 year old and posted them online, dangerous! Her eldest boy refused point blank to go to this contact visit, a decision he made himself. She has set up a website for people to “donate” money, but can go on holiday abroad twice a year, shameful. Please, think about what this vile excuse for a granny writes and ponder the fact she has blocked all of us so you won’t read the TRUTH. No one is hiding these 2 little boys, they most certainly are not missing. They are at home very much settled at the fact their “step mum” will be there when they get up and come home from school. No more confusion for these 2 innocents thanks to Allana Bruce and their daddy JayMcKay.